The Gorin Family

Have you ever heard of various websites you can join to meet men that have unusually busy lifestyles that prevent them from meeting women under normal circumstances? Im not just talking the traditional "match.com" here either. Most men on these websites advertise themselves as being professional, extremely busy, and in general looking for "classy" women. What makes the difference on these websites is there is a line item for "hair color", "eye color", and also "worth". Or a term similar.
In general, these men are very up front, stating they are very busy with their profession, and want to spend time with someone that isnt calling every hour asking them when they will be home for dinner. They have social functions to attend and basically want you to be their "girlfriend" to spoil, spend time with when they have the time, but not deal with the dramatics and headaches of a usual relationship. Some even include in their profile they are "willing to take care of living expenses" if meeting the right woman.
I have had quite a few conversations on this topic, debating on whether these types of relationships work. Not only if they work, but are they healthy. My question is, who is it working for, him? Maybe it works for her. In any case, some women feel it is fake but I, on the contrary feel it is anything but fake. They arent pretending to be the best family man. They arent consistantly arguing that they arent around because they are doing everything for you. They are upfront, they have, and plan on continuing to look for someone who can understand that time means money. For everyone. They have made decisions in repect to they way they want to live and they own that decision. There is no wavering.
Yes, the usual sleezballs are roaming these and every other site that includes womens pictures. But I have a respect for the men that are sincere and upfront in what they are looking for and the conditions that go along with it. I think society is becoming more accepting of seeing women in all the roles that are non-traditional. Being non-judgemental and having an open mind puts alot of people in alot of good places.

posted by Katherine @ 6:38 PM